This question is mostly for females but if males have experience they can answer as well.

I just want to know... in my experience I've had a lot of occasions when it felt like men were sexually harassing me. These experiences have ranged from the bar (where it's kind of expected) to the job. I just wanted to know how many other people had similar experiences, if it's more common to happen to females, if perhaps there is something I did to encourage this behavior (I'm not sure what, besides be nice to them beforehand). I just want to see how normal it is basically. Does it happen to everyone?

I don't know maybe this is a dumb question but I've been kind of curious. What is the best way to deal with a gross coworker when you know that if you say something to the supervisor it's going to cause people talking about you behind your back and other problems? I just want some ideas I guess.